That’s right – you need to find a partner.  Find someone who has strengths you don’t.

For example.  Eric Gehler and I have worked together for many years now.  He lives about 5 hours away from me and we get together about once or twice a year.  How do we break things down?

I do the techie crap, he does the manage linking, content, organization crap that I hate.

It works out very well.  In your case you might not want to partner up with someone quite as deeply as we have but that doesn’t mean that you can’t work with someone. Trade content for links, build websites for them for links, etc…
Feel free to request a ‘buddy’ here in the comments – who knows you might just become one of “my buddies”.  I’d trade my sister for enough links (Kiddin sis).